H O N O U R I N G L O S S
Welcoming you to this tending space.
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Here is where I offer my support to those navigating pregnancy loss.
May this space be a step on your path to healing.
My work supporting women and folk who have gone through both abortion and pregnancy loss has included :
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Supporting women 1:1 during their abortion, providing support, guidance and herbal medicines to assist them through this challenging time.
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Facilitating womens circles for honouring the loss of both abortion and pregnancy loss.
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Giving talks around my book ' A Holistic Guide to Healing with Ritual and Herbal Medicine after an Abortion'. To bring awareness to the resources available in the book.
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Working 1:1 with women who wish to create a ritual and ceremony to honour their loss.
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Teaching workshops for birthworkers on the wide spectrum of tools to support grief within the birth space.
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Loss is woven into our lives as women; whether that be through the shedding of our monthly blood, or the deeper experiences of baby loss. Our womb spaces hold the memories of all we have gone through deep within their cells.
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I offer a space for all those who feel called to tend to a pregnancy loss. This may be many years after the loss happened, or very recently. From the perspective of the soul, if there is healing that needs to happen, then time is irrelevant.
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To step on the path of healing after loss takes courage, and a willingness to look within yourself. I am here to stand by your side as you step through this door. Know that this work of tending to loss in a way that is sacred, sends healing back through the ancestral line of mothers. You are paving a way for generations to come through acknowledging that you are worthy of healing, and witnessing all of life as sacred.
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How can you hold yourself in the hands of infinite love and compassion for all you have been through?
What kind of support do I offer?
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I offer holistic support rooted in bringing you back into your body again
with the assistance of herbal medicine and ritual.
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Healing from a loss is multi layered.
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I believe that there needs to be physical, emotional and spiritual healing
after this experience.
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​And it is spiritual healing that often gets forgotten.
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The piece of the puzzle I offer is centred around the spiritual healing, creating ritual for you
and supporting reconnection with your womb.
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You know if you feel called to ritual if you have sought out other
support after your loss, but there still feels like something is unresolved.
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I have seen this many times, and through the simple power of ritual
I have helped women to gently return to peace after their experience of loss.
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***I am not a therapist or counsellor ***
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Although within my sessions, I offer a space to share, I am not offering a full space for talking.
I believe that sometimes creating a space where you can rest in the stillness
of your body is more healing than talking about the pain.
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I believe that creating an effective and well held ritual can
shift the challenging experience of pregnancy loss in ways
that talking never can.
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I may be a good fit for you if :
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* You would like the support of ritual to honour your loss.
* You are curious as to how plants may bring healing to your body and soul.
* You feel disconnected from your body and womb and are seeking ways to reconnect with
your body again.
* You long to connect with the soul of the baby.
*You are seeking earth based practises that support the rocky terrain of grief.
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If you resonate with this way of working, I offer a free 20minute connection call before booking a session.
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How can I support you?
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Are you about to go through an abortion ?
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I am available to offer remote support for those who are considering an abortion or are going through one. This support package would be decided between us depending on what is needed, but it would likely include guided meditation practices, herbal medicine for healing baths, infused oil for womb support and guidance to create your own ritual.
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We would have a free 15 minute call before any commitment, to ensure that I am the right person to support you.
Per session : £55 - 75 sliding scale/hour.
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Have you recently gone through any kind of pregnancy loss and
are looking for holistic support ?
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I bring a toolkit of simple somatic practises to help ground the body and be present as words are shared.
I would offer guided meditation practises to bring healing and reconnection to your womb space, herbal medicine for healing baths, infused oil for womb support and guidance to create your own ritual.
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I show you how to belly wrap your womb space. So that she too may feel held throughout our time together.
We would have a free 15 minute call before any commitment, to ensure that I am the right person to support you.
Prices: Support packages from £55-75 sliding scale.
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Creating Ceremony
We shall work together to craft a ceremony for you to honour the loss. The creation of sacred space through ceremony, offers an opportunity to release aspects of your loss which are still present. It allows you to let go of any pain, shame or trauma surrounding this experience, transforming it in a way of beauty through the elements.
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Many women seek a connection with the soul of the little being who departed. I offer ways to communicate with this baby soul, how to make peace with and reconcile your experience.
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The Healing Power of the Plant World
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As part of the session I shall give you a handout about how to have a Herbal Bath Ritual. This is to allow the healing to continue and support the integration of any shifts that have occured during the session.
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I shall send you the herbs that you need for this beautiful and healing offering.
How would a session flow ?
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This space is for you, what do you need during this time ?
maybe it is body centred practises to ground back into your centre, or it could be a ceremony.
Often we shall weave together all of the above to create a space of healing and restoration.
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How can we carve out a little window of time amidst the intensity of life to drop in to your story, your loss ?
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I am here for you, and will sit with you as I listen to what is needed in our time together.
It is different for every single person.
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There is no wrong way to step onto this path of healing, it takes real courage to choose to bring softness to an experience that is not valued in the outer world.
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I honour your bravery.
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Please reach out with any questions or queries, I am here to support you at any point of the journey.
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Why do I hold this space for loss ?
I hold this space because this work runs deep in my bones as a woman, because I wish to uproot what was hidden and buried long ago and bring this to the light.
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Because we deserve to have every thresholds that we pass through in this life honoured, revered and held safe.
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Because we are life bringers in every sense.
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Because we are our stories, and the stories of our grandmothers and they are whispering us that when we heal, we heal them too.
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The Spark of My Own Story
Many years ago I ended a pregnancy, a decision that changed my world forever. I was initiated into the shadow side of being a woman, and felt a jolt of resonance with all the women who came before me who I done the same. I was in safe arms.
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And I met the spirit of my baby, a wise and kindred soul who once on the other side, gave me a strong assignment, that of writing my book.
A book that I would have liked to hold in my hands when I was journeying through the grief and pain of that decision. One that could reweave the red thread of forgotten grandmother wisdom and be a balm for my sisters across the globe.
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Once I had written, drawn and crafted this creation, I knew that the next step would be to sit in circle with women, to hold space for the stories, the tears, the sorrow.
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So this is where I am now, creating circles, holding spaces, sharing my journey, all with the intention of creating radical space for those who seek healing after their loss.
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To gently walk alongside you for a part of your healing journey, is a great honour and one that I do not hold lightly.
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I offer a prayer of gratitude to all those women who I have supported, and to all who have bought this book and have chosen a path for themselves, rooted in compassion, acceptance and love.